Archive for December, 2009

Facebook Major Player In Modern Divorces

Wednesday, December 30th, 2009

A major British legal firm says that one in five of their divorces involves Facebook in some manner. In fact, the social networking site is becoming a leading form of evidence for marital infidelity.

“I heard there were a lot of people saying they had found out things about their partners on Facebook and I decided to see how prevalent it was,” Mark Keenan, Managing Director of Divorce-Online tells the Telegraph. “I was really surprised to see 20 per cent of all the petitions containing references to Facebook.”

Keenan says the most common reason Facebook was mentioned in the divorce petitions was due to married persons having sexual chats with people outside of their marriages.

While these numbers come from across the pond, San Francisco divorce attorneys agree that the site leads many spouses to be tempted to cheat on their husbands or wives.

To read more about the issue, see the article in the New York Daily News. Image Via pmarkham [Flickr].

San Francisco Squaring Off Against Catholic Church

Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009

After the Cardinal William Levada instructed the Archdiocese and Catholic Charities of San Francisco to refuse to place adopted children in the homes of same-sex couples, the city of San Francisco responded with a scathing resolution against the church for these discriminatory practices. The resolution refereed to the Vatican as a foreign country that was attempting to meddle in the affairs of San Francisco and said the Catholic Church’s beliefs on homosexuality are “insulting to all San Francisians,” “hateful,” “defamatory,” “unacceptable” and “insensitive and ignorant.” The resolutions also urged Archbishop George Neiderauer and the Catholic Charities of San Francisco to defy the Vatican’s orders when it came to same-sex couples.

Now the Catholic Church has brought the issue before a federal appeals court, claiming the city unconstitutionally attacked the church by enacting the resolution. The church’s attorney claims the Constitution forbids official hostility to a religion or its doctrines, just as it forbids official endorsement of any religion. The church aims to have the resolution repealed.

The city’s attorney said the supervisors have the responsibility to support equal rights for all citizens, regardless of orientation, and thus, were entitled to criticize any group that was opposed to this goal.

While appeals Judge kozinski seemed inclined to take the city’s side on the case, the decision will not be announced until later.

Most attorneys support the constitution’s freedom of religion, but San Francisco family lawyers still seem to largely support the city’s decision in supporting adoption by same-sex parents.

To read more on the case, see the article in the SF Gate. Image Via Dimitry B [Flickr]

Elin Nordegren Plans To Divorce Tiger Woods

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

Keith AllisonDespite her original statements claiming that she had planned to give Tiger a chance and try to work things out, Elin Nordegren has officially announced her plans to leave her famous husband. News about Tigers afairs with up to nine women has been circulating the globe over the last week, and while the Swedish model claims she knew that he had been unfaithful, she also believed he had stopped cheating on her.

Sources close to the couple report that she has made up her mind and will not be swayed to stay with her adulterous husband. This weekend, Elin was photographed around town not wearing her wedding ring. Reports indicate that she has been speaking with divorce attorneys in her local area regarding her prenuptial agreement and providing instructions to moving men who appeared to be removing large works of art from the couple’s home.

While adultery is not ordinarily grounds for a larger divorce settlement, San Francisco divorce attorneys say the prenuptial may make mention of unfaithfulness and have remedies in place for this situation. If so, Tiger could lose far more than 50% of his property.

To read more about Elin’s decision, see the article in People. Image Via Keith Allison [Flickr].

Shaq Attempting To Move Divorce To Florida

Monday, December 7th, 2009

Keith AllisonDays before filing for divorce, Shaquille O’Neal’s wife, Va’shaundya, moved to California, which is known for having much more generous divorce settlement laws than Florida. Shaq’s attorney has filed paperwork to bring the proceedings back to Florida, based on the fact that this was where the couple lived up until the divorce.

San Francisco divorce attorneys claim that Va’shaundya’s moving to California is a major sign that she is looking to get as much as she can out of the divorce. She has already gone on record as wanting complete custody of the children, child support and spousal support from the divorce.

The divorce was filed shortly after Va’shaundya learned about Shaq’s 5-year long affair with Laura Govan, the pregnant fiancee of Gilbert Arenas.  All signs so far point to this being a very emotional and financially straining divorce process.

To read more about the divorce, see the article in S2S Magazine. Image Via Keith Allison [Flickr].

Strange Divorce Settlements

Wednesday, December 2nd, 2009

pdstahlDivorces are hard for everyone, but when a lot of property is involved, things can get even more complex. A San Francisco divorce attorney can tell you that sometimes it helps to know that your divorce agreement isn’t as complex as you think it is. A recent post on Mental Floss has a fascinating list of 10 of the most bizarre divorce settlements of all time. A few highlights from the article are included below.

- Marvin Gaye’s lavish spending left him facing difficulties when it came to paying Anna Gordy’s alimony, so his attorneys struck up an agreement:

Gaye would record a new album and give all of the royalties to Gordy as alimony. Gaye headed into the studio and recorded the double album Here, My Dear to fulfill this deal with Gordy. Unfortunately for Gordy, critics and audiences didn’t love Gaye’s divorce-themed concept album; although today’s critics praise the album it was the singer’s worst charting record of the 1970s.

- This year, a Long Island doctor wanted his unfaithful wife to return the kidney he had donated to her or $1.5 million compensation for the sacrifice. Unsurprisingly, the courts did not recognize the request, as returning the kidney would have been disastrous for the wife’s health and organ donations are gifts, not loans.

- A Cambodian husband took the rule of equal property division very literally during his divorce last year –he cut the couple’s house in two, deconstructed his part and took the supplies back to his parent’s house.

-Writer Georges Simenon agreed to pay an exceptionally generous divorce settlement, but with one stipulation: his wife had to continue living within six miles of him so he could see his children regularly.

Image Via pdstahl [Flickr]